XVII What are the Peaceful Warrior roles?

Peaceful Warrior roles are healthy functional roles sourced in Love Consciousness that allow people to engage in life with self-responsibility, emotional intelligence, and authentic relationships.

For each limiting role sourced in Fear Consciousness, we want to shift to a peaceful warrior role sourced in Love Consciousness.

1. Victim → Powerful Creator

Shift Needed: From feeling powerless to taking responsibility for our choices.

Key Behaviours of the Creator:
i. Focuses on possibilities and solutions instead of helplessness.
ii. Takes ownership of actions and emotions.
iii. Seeks growth and learning rather than external rescue.
iv. Asks, "What can I do to change my situation?" instead of "Why does this always happen to me?"

Note to the RYD Coaches:
Psychodrama Strategy - Role-play self-agency, re-examine past helplessness with a new empowered perspective.

 
2. Avoider → Truthful Engager

Shift Needed: From withdrawing to engaging with courage and presence.

Key Behaviours of the Engager:
i. Confronts issues directly and constructively instead of avoiding.
ii. Stays present in challenging emotions rather than avoiding them by distracting themselves
iii. Takes decisive action rather than procrastinating.
iv. Asks, "How can I address this situation instead of avoiding it?"

Note to the RYD Coaches:
Psychodrama Strategy - Enact scenarios of healthy confrontation, explore past avoidance patterns.

 
3. Fighter → Assertive Challenger

Shift Needed: From blaming and controlling to challenging with respect.

Key Behaviours of the Challenger:
i. Uses assertion, not aggression, to set boundaries and expectations.
ii. Encourages growth in others rather than tearing them down.
iii. Takes responsibility for own emotions rather than projecting onto others.
iv. Asks, "How can I challenge others in a way that empowers, not controls?"
 
Note to RYD Coaches:
Psychodrama Strategy - Role-reversal with those they have persecuted, practice constructive dialogue.


4. Rescuer → Supportive Guide

Shift Needed: From enabling dependency to empowering others.

Key Behaviours of the Guide:
i. Support others, while letting them own their journey.
ii. Encourage self-reliance instead of fixing everything.
iii. Ask powerful questions rather than giving advice.
iv. Ask, "How can I support you in solving this yourself?"

Note to the RYD Coaches:
Psychodrama Strategy: Enact scenarios where the "rescued" person steps into their own power.

Instead of repeating unconscious patterns, Psychodrama helps people to become viscerally aware of their repeating sub-conscious patterns and experiment with functional roles in a safe space.