XI. How do we dissolve our Fear Consciousness?

There are 5 stages of transformation from Fear to Love with the transformation enabled through growth habits and transformative practises:

0. Unconscious Incompetence – Our Fears are creating our Limiting Reality unconsciously and we are not even aware of it. We blame others, karma or our destiny for the misery in our life.

We are in Gear 0 of our inner journey of personal transformation; and react to Life as a Critical Fighter, Distracted Avoider, Over-helping Rescuer and Helpless Victim unconsciously, going round and round in an energy-draining circle.

The Critical Fighter role in us reacts to low energy emotions by vomiting on others, Helpless Victim role in us by rolling in the low energy emotions, Over-helping Rescuer by numbing themselves to their own emotions, and Distracted Avoider by distracting themselves to avoid feeling their low energy emotions .
 
1. Conscious Incompetence – We begin to see how our Fears are creating our Limiting Reality.

We realize we are responsible for all that happens in our life.

We have now stepped into Gear 1 (Agility of Mind) of our inner journey of personal transformation. We call this journey Leadership Depth.

The keystone habit at this stage is Daily Reflection to process the low energy emotions at end of day through structured reflection because I am extraordinary and I love myself.

2. Conscious Competence Stage 1 – We begin to make conscious effort to shift our Being from Fear to Love to generate our Reality in alignment with our Intentions and Dreams.

We have now stepped into Gear 2 (Being of Service) of our inner journey of personal transformation.

We begin to process the low energy emotion at the end of the event through a quick 5-minute structured reflection because People are extraordinary and I love People; and therefore, I don't want to carry my low energy emotion to the next person I will be talking to.

3. Conscious Competence Stage 2 – We make a conscious effort with greater commitment to shift our Being from Fear to Love to generate our Reality in alignment with our Intentions and Dreams. We experience greater ease and grace as an outcome of this greater conscious effort.

We have now stepped into Gear 3 (Communicating powerfully in the world of others) of our inner journey of personal transformation, also known as Leadership Depth.

We begin to process the low energy emotion during the event through seeing, accepting, embracing the emotion and stepping into our whole soul and big mind by being authentic about our inauthenticity (our hole in the soul, small mind, limiting roles, limiting energy, limiting habits) with people I am with because I trust the Universe, I am a channel of massive positive impact and I am making a difference.
 
4. Conscious Competence Stage 3 – We have now stepped into Gear 4 (Delivering on our Word) of our inner journey of personal transformation, also known as Leadership Depth.

We begin to process the low energy emotion pre-event through a quick 5-minute pre-event structured reflection because I am whole, complete and perfect as I am right now; People are whole, complete and perfect as they are right now; Life is whole, complete and perfect as it is right now; I am my word; I believe in myself; I believe in you.

We get greater access to our Power to Create™ as people around us support us to fulfil our intention which not only contributes to us but also to them.

5. Unconscious Competence – We have now stepped into Gear 5 (Excellence) of our inner journey of personal transformation, also known as Leadership Depth.

Our Being is Love and we get full access to our Power to Create to generate our Reality in alignment with our reality-defying intentions and impossible, unimaginable, crazy-big dreams with ease and grace.

Low energy emotions arise and dissolve on their own because I love, accept and revere myself as I am right now; I love, accept and revere people as they are right now; I love, accept and revere life as it is right now.


Gear 1 to Gear 5 is a spiral of growth. We grow through spirals of growth. We do not have to wait to be at 100% in a particular gear to step up to the next. Going around the mountain is easier than climbing steeply to the summit. We can start with 20% spiral of growth and keep stepping up to 30%, 40% and so on.

Till 40% spiral of growth, we are on the Starter Track by doing our Growth Habits and Transformative Practises 1% to 40% of the time.

From 40% to 80%, we are on the Champion Track by doing our Growth Habits and Transformative Practises 41% to 80% of the time.

From 80% to 100%, we are on the Mastery Track by doing our Growth Habits and Transformative Practises 81% to 100% of the time.

It's an endless journey to mastery.

The joy is in the journey itself.

Every step forward on the journey brings greater joy and fulfilment.