Dismantling Beliefs to step into Joyous Freedom

The Results in our Life is a function of Actions we take. The Actions we take are a function of where we are standing on the Ball of Perspective. Where we are standing on the Ball of Perspective is described in language. Another word for the default point on the Ball of Perspective is Belief.

If the coachee is not getting the results they want. Telling them to take different actions will not lead to any progress because knowing makes zero difference.

Everyone knows going to the gym regularly and eating a healthy diet will make us healthy and fit. Yet, how many people are able to take action in alignment with that knowing?

Knowing makes zero difference in changing the actions we take. Our actions are linked to the Beliefs we have, the Default Point on the Ball of Perspective that is giving us as a natural outcome Default Actions that give us the default circumstances we have, the default life we experience.

​If you listen very intently to your coachees, the words they use will reveal to you their Beliefs that are coming in the way of their growth.

We believe the point that we are standing on the Ball of Perspective around Reality is the only Truth. Nothing else exists. And, we will fight tooth and nail with everyone else who are standing on their point on the Ball of Perspective from where they see something completely different.

We all may be standing on the points on the Ball of Perspective that give us actions that don't give any of us the results that we want in our life. But, who cares about that. We care more about Being Right, my Belief is Right, than having a Great Life.

Gifting your coachee Agility of Mind is the first gift you will give them. Agility of Mind to disengage from their point and stand at a distance from it, to see that their point of view is only a thought they have that they have given their Power of Belief to, that there are infinite points on the Ball of Perspective to stand on.

Support them to do their Gear 1 RYD Transformative Practises which include Daily RYD Habits, which will support them to strengthen their Agility of Mind gear 1 consciousness to find a point on the Ball of Perspective and give their Power of Belief to it - I am extraordinary and I love myself.

Reaching this point is essential to be able to do the below exercise of dismantling default beliefs for them to find Joyous Freedom to create the life they love.

Changing their point on the ball of perspective in an area from the Default Point (Default Belief) that is generating Default Actions giving them their Default Life to a Distinctly New Point on the Ball of Perspective (Distinction) that gives them access to their Power to Create™ to generate their Reality in alignment with their intentions and dreams with ease and grace is the first step in our work as their coach, their wind beneath their wings, to support them to fly high in the vast sky of their limitless possibilities.

Here's how you can help your coachees to uncover their Default Points (Default Beliefs) on the Ball of Perspective in different areas in their wheel of life and sources from where the Beliefs were adopted.

Remember, this is a lifetime of work. Pick-up a small bit at a time instead of doing the whole exercise. Whichever area is hurting them the most, begin the exploration there.

Tell your coachee to:

A. Make a list of all the communities that you are a part of. All the communities that we are a part of are part of our roots, our heritage. We get both elevating beliefs and debilitating beliefs from each of the community that we belong to - 
i. family of our origin
ii. family of our creation
iii. gender
iv. religion
v. region / state
vi. language
vii.  schools / colleges we went to
viii. organizations we joined
ix. country we belong to
x. human being
xi. RYD
xii. Any other community that you are a part of

B. Reflect on each community and make a list of beliefs you adopted by virtue of being a part of that community for the area of your wheel of life in which you are not getting the results you want.

C. Values Alignment - Reflect on each Belief and do an assessment of which Value each Belief upholds or negates.

D. Impact Assessment - Reflect on each Belief and list down the actions you end up taking as an outcome of that Belief and the Results that get created because of those Actions.

E. Conscious Choice - Now make a Conscious Choice to 
i. Drop some Beliefs
ii. Change some Beliefs
iii. Create new Beliefs
in alignment with your Values. 

Choose Beliefs, specific to the area of the wheel of life you were reflecting on, that would generate you to take actions to joyously lead yourself and your businesses from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; experiencing beauty, balance and harmony within and all around; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Include your newly created beliefs as part of your RYD Prayer of Gratitude to create a new brain tattoo.

Keep making a massive impact to joyously lead yourself and your coachees from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way 💜

Loving you,
​j.

Supporting Article for your Coachee to read:
​1) Breaking Free