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The 2nd Awakening

25/11/2024

Invitation for the 2nd Awakening:

Coachee Name,

We began our journey <x> months ago. It began with the First Awakening through the Gift Coaching Deep-dive followed by an Explore conversation. I asked you if you had an Inner Knowing if I am meant to be your coach. You were at 10 on 10 on your Inner Knowing, which is why we travelled together on your Hero's Journey over the last one year from Good to Great with me as your coach by your side.

There is a Rite of Passage to Year 2 of your Hero's Journey with RYD as your structure of success and me as your coach for your ongoing journey.

The Rite of Passage is the 2nd Awakening which includes a Gift Coaching Deep-dive followed by an Explore Conversation, just like last year. The process of deeper self-inquiry, exploration, creating your journey ahead, choosing the coach and checking in with your Inner Wisdom whether you have a 10 on 10 Inner Knowing is critical to the success of our work together because a coach is a channel through which transformation flows through to the coachee.

If you are willing to play the game, here are few options on my calendar for a 2 hours deep-dive immersion.

<Monday 29-July 10:27 am IST>
<Tuesday 30-July 7:57 am IST>
<Friday 2-Aug 7:57 am IST>

Does anything from here work for you?

You are extraordinary. I love you. I believe in you 💜

Love and Light,
<Coach Name>
RYD Coach
Realize Your Dreams Gym for Business, Leadership and Life Mastery™
Our Channels of Impact:
Centre for Transformational Leadership™
Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™
Centre for Personal Excellence™
Mums At Work™
Centre for Sports Excellence™
Centre for Coaching Excellence™

Sub: Your 1st Adventure for the 2nd Awakening

Dear Coachee Name,

Here's your 1st adventure to go on before our deep-dive immersion on <Tuesday 30-July 7:57 am IST>:

Reflect on your Questions and Insights, in the enclosed document, from the time we started our journey together <x> months ago.

What are your Questions at this point in time in each area of your wheel of Life?

i. Deeply fulfilling, successful, profitable business supporting you to live your purpose of life; gifting you with impact, contribution and financial freedom

ii. Loving, harmonious, positive, uplifting relationships at work, at home and in the world

iii. Happy, healthy, responsible, confident kids with their genius joyfully expressed

iv. Nourishing, nurturing yourself to the highest level of health, fitness and joyous well-being - physical, energetic, emotional, mental, spiritual

v. Making a massive difference through the work you do

Keep learning, reflecting and integrating to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way 💜

Love and Light,
<Coach Name>
RYD Coach
Realize Your Dreams Gym for Business, Leadership and Life Mastery™
Our Channels of Impact:
Centre for Transformational Leadership™
Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™
Centre for Personal Excellence™
Mums At Work™
Centre for Sports Excellence™
Centre for Coaching Excellence™

Sub: Your 2nd Adventure for the 2nd Awakening

Dear Coachee Name,

I love that you are willing and open to look within for questions because they create the pathway for your ongoing Hero's journey from Good to Great.

I am touched by your love, trust and belief in me that has you consider and explore travelling the next leg of your journey with me as your coach.

Here's your 2nd adventure to go on:

A. If we paused our journey together after Year 1, how would your Default Future look like? What would travelling Year 2 with me as your wind beneath your wings and RYD as your structure of success make available for you?

B. Read the below articles. The intention of these articles is not so much to provide you with solutions but to deepen your self-inquiry by offering you different perspectives and have you be connected even more deeply with your own inner wisdom.

For each article - What are your insights that made a difference to you and the next set of questions that arise, the answer to which would lead you forward on your journey from good to great, personally and professionally?

Read one article at a time, write your insights and questions from it before reading the next article.

1. https://www.jyotigulati.com/from-me-to-you/what-is-so-special-about-indian-origin-ceos

2. https://www.jyotigulati.com/ryd-business-excellence/mountain-of-growth

3. https://www.jyotigulati.com/ryd-leadership-depth/intention-and-attention

4. https://www.jyotigulati.com/articles/so-you-think-you-are-not-addicted

5. https://www.jyotigulati.com/articles/how-to-deal-with-stress

6. https://www.jyotigulati.com/from-me-to-you/the-vast-sky

7. https://www.jyotigulati.com/intentions.html

<Since the articles are for a peaceful warrior on their ongoing RYD journey from Good to Great, choose articles which go levels deeper from the RYD Playbook instead of from Open Articles which tend to be more for the uninitiated.>

C. How are you feeling as an outcome of doing this exploration? What else would you like to share?

On receiving your reflections from the 2nd adventure, will email your 3rd and final adventure for you to go on prior to our deep-dive. The reflection for your 3rd exploration are to be mailed back to me before our deep-dive immersion - The 2nd Awakening - on <Wednesday 7-Aug 10:27 am to 12:27 pm IST> at <https://zoom.us/j/5438148706>

Wishing you the joy of the journey to come home to yourself as you lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way 💜

Love and Light,
<Coach Name>
RYD Coach
Realize Your Dreams Gym for Business, Leadership and Life Mastery™
Our Channels of Impact:
Centre for Transformational Leadership™
Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™
Centre for Personal Excellence™
Mums At Work™
Centre for Sports Excellence™
Centre for Coaching Excellence™

Sub: Your 3rd Adventure for the 2nd Awakening

Dear Coachee Name,

Thank you for your vulnerable authenticity, and the courage to explore widely and reflect deeply.

Your 3rd Adventure is as below and the exploration is to be done in the order given:

1. Review and reflect on your 5-year Dream Lifestyle

Which specific dreams got fulfilled?

What progress happened against each of the dreams?

For some dreams, what strong foundation specifically got laid?

Which dreams are no longer relevant?

Which new dreams you now want to add?

2. Update your Dream Lifestyle if it feels right to do that

Here's a framework to do that: Continue to write in the present tense, use visual language, remove zero words to write in short and sweet sentences, add feeling words to feel the dream lifestyle viscerally as you re-read it, and update it in the way that your Dream Lifestyle joyously inspires you. Take help from the below questions to raise the bar on your Dream Lifestyle, if that's what feels right.

Which IMPOSSIBLE, UNIMAGINABLE, CRAZY-BIG dreams would be realized; dreams that bring stars to your eyes, dance to your feet, a song on your lips, joy to your heart, peace to your mind? Include professional and personal goals achieved, even material possessions. If your dreams don't scare you a bit, they aren't big enough. You limit the growth available to you this lifetime by the limit you place on your dreams.

What would you be DOING?

How would you be LIVING?

How would you be FEELING?

What would you be SEEING?

What would you be HEARING?

What would you be HAVING?

Who would you be BEING?

3. Email to me your 5 outcome goals that you are committed to creating in the next one year that will support you to fulfil on your Dream Lifestyle. You could take up one outcome goal for each of the 5 areas of your wheel of life -

i. Deeply fulfilling successful profitable business, supporting you to live your purpose of life; gifting you with impact, contribution and financial freedom

ii. Loving, harmonious, positive, uplifting relationships at work, at home and in the world

iii. Happy, healthy, confident, responsible kids with their genius joyfully expressed

iv. Nourishing, nurturing yourself to the highest level of health, fitness and joyous well-being - physical, energetic, emotional, mental, spiritual

v. Making a massive difference through the work you do

4. Email me your answers to the below questions:

i. What is your emotional state after going on the 3 adventures?

ii. What do you now understand that you hadn't understood before?

iii. What do you now see that you hadn't seen before?

iv. What one tiny action would you take before our deep-dive immersion to implement the above insights?

v. What is your most important question now, after all the explorations, the answer to which would lead you forward on your good to great journey with greater ease, grace and velocity?

5. What else would you like to share as we get ready for our deep-dive immersion?

You are extraordinary. I love you. I believe in you 💜

Looking forward to our deep-dive immersion on <Wednesday 7-August 10:27 am to 12:27 pm IST>. Here's the link for your ready reference - <https://zoom.us/j/5438148706>

Keep creating to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Love and Light,
<Coach Name>
RYD Coach
Realize Your Dreams Gym for Business, Leadership and Life Mastery™
Our Channels of Impact:
Centre for Transformational Leadership™
Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™
Centre for Personal Excellence™
Mums At Work™
Centre for Sports Excellence™
Centre for Coaching Excellence™

Sub: Your 4th Adventure for the 2nd Awakening

Dear Coachee Name,

As we get ready for our next deep-dive on <Wednesday 7-Aug 10:27 am to 12:27 pm IST> at <https://zoom.us/j/5438148706>, here’s what I want you to bring into our conversation:

A. Reflection on our group deep-dive immersion: Write back to me your responses to the below questions with respect to our Conversation today within 24 hours while you are still in the space of the deep-dive.

Q1. What am I present to as an outcome of our deep-dive today:
a. Physically - What is my physical energy?
b. Emotionally - What am I feeling?
c. Mentally - What are my thoughts? Identify specific thoughts that has you feel in your emotional and physical body as above.
d. Spiritually - Is my source Love or is my source Fear?

Q2. What do I now understand that I hadn't understood before?
Q3. What do I now see that I hadn't seen before?
Q4. What is possible now which wasn't possible before?
Q5. What is my most important question now the answer to which will support me to joyously lead myself and my businesses from good to great, realize my dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way?

B. Your Hero's Journey from Good to Great

1. <Coachee Name>, 10 on 10 Inner Knowing is key to the success of our ongoing journey together, with me as the wind beneath your wings and RYD as your structure of success.

For me, a coach is the Someone in this article as a reminder of the place I come from. On a scale of 0 to 10, what is your Inner Knowing about whether I am meant to be your coach in the next leg of your Hero's journey from good to great?

https://www.jyotigulati.com/articles/what-do-we-need-to-realize-our-greatest-dreams-in-deepest-communion-with-our-highest-self

2. If you have an inner knowing that I am meant to be your coach, what are the impossible, unimaginable, measurable outcome goals (at least one in each area below) that you will now be able to achieve over the next one year because Jyoti is your coach:

i. Deeply fulfilling, successful, profitable business supporting you to live your purpose of life; gifting you with impact, contribution and financial freedom

ii. Loving, harmonious, positive, uplifting relationships at work, at home and in the world

iii. Happy, healthy, responsible, confident kids with their genius joyfully expressed

iv. Nourishing, nurturing yourself to the highest level of health, fitness and joyous well-being - physical, energetic, emotional, mental, spiritual

v. Making a massive difference through the work you do

3. Make a list of all the reasons why our work together will not have you create your outcomes as above and tell me what will you do to ensure those reasons don’t become a barrier for you.

4. Here's an over-view of the 3 journeys we travel with our coachees - https://www.jyotigulati.com/articles/how-to-transform-your-organization-from-good-to-great

Check in with yourself if these 3 journeys continue to inspire you; and if you are willing to re-commit yourself to the Journey of the Peaceful Warrior to lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all.

5. What are you feeling as you get ready to step into a conversation with me?

C. What else would you like to share?

Keep learning, integrating and contributing to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Love and Light,
<Coach Name>
RYD Coach
Realize Your Dreams Gym for Business, Leadership and Life Mastery™
Our Channels of Impact:
Centre for Transformational Leadership™
Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™
Centre for Personal Excellence™
Mums At Work™
Centre for Sports Excellence™
Centre for Coaching Excellence™

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Using Physical Body Symptoms to Coach

17/11/2024

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The Coaching Conversation between a Socratian and her Coachee

Coach: And, most important remember to take care of yourself and love yourself while you take care of the kids ❤️

Coachee: Yes I just thought of that this morning ! I’ve actually got a terrible shoulder catch on one side - always happens when I’m stressed 🙈

Coach: What is your terrible shoulder catch telling you?
💜

Coachee: Yes I just thought of that this morning ! I’ve actually got a terrible shoulder catch on one side - always happens when I’m stressed 🙈

Coach What is your terrible shoulder catch telling you?
💜

Coachee: To take care of myself and to not worry, my kids will be fine ☺️
And I am good enough - I am the best mother

Coach: Shoulders represent our ability to carry out experiences in our life. We make life a burden or a joyous experience by our attitude.

Coachee: I see the light in what you say - it has been joyous spending the whole week at home with the kids ! We got to spend some good time together :)

Coach: Lovely 💜

Taking from what you said, inviting you to take a thought with you and repeat it till it becomes your own.

I choose to allow all my experiences to be joyous and loving

Coach: Test it out today and let me know how you and your shoulder are feeling by the day end /tomorrow.

Loving you 💜

Coachee Sure 👍🏻

The Same Coaching Conversation done Another Way

j - Well done at taking your coachee deeper using her physical body 💜

Thank you for creating a Learning Opportunity for all of us by seeking inputs.

Copied the conversation here to share how I would have responded for all of you to reflect and identify the Principles of RYD coaching in use:

Coach: I acknowledge you for being an amazing mother, <coachee name>. How are you feeling and doing while caring for your sick children, taking care of your work responsibilities at the same time and so many other things you take care of?

Coachee: I’ve actually got a terrible shoulder catch on one side - always happens when I’m stressed 🙈

Coach: I am sorry to hear about the pain in your shoulder, <coachee name>. Sending you love and healing to give you strength to create your perfect health and joyous well-being.

Which side of the shoulder is hurting you?

<This will give me a clue where is the experience of burden coming from - from the men in her life or from the women in her life or whether she is feeling burdened by the experience of being a mother / woman>

Coachee:

Coach: On a scale of 0 to 10, how much is the pain intensity?

Coachee:

Coach: Louise Hay, a teacher I learnt massively from through her books, mapped physical symptoms to mental thought patterns. She healed her clients by helping them become aware of their limiting thought patterns and shifting them.

As per her - Shoulders represent our ability to carry our experiences in life joyously. We make life a burden by our attitude of feeling burdened by our experiences.

Willing to play the game to heal your shoulder?

Coachee:

Coach: Super 💜

Include the below statements in your daily RYD Prayer of Gratitude:
The Universe is gifting me my highest good, moment to moment. All my experiences are joyous and loving.

Come into our next deep-dive to share what got created for your shoulder as you spoke the above statements as part of your RYD Prayer of Gratitude, 5 times a day, giving your power of belief to the statements in your RYD Prayer of Gratitude.

Coachee:

Coach: Well done for taking on playing the game to be at the source of your perfect health and joyous well-being 💜

Keep creating your well-being to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

To the next deep-dive, I will take the following information with me for a deeper-dive:

1. Which side of her shoulder was hurting?
Left - Any issues with mother-in-law / mother / sister / experience of herself as a mother?
Right - Any issues with husband / father-in-law / father / work?

2. Her kids have pneumonia. Pneumonia, as per Louise Hay, is an expression of - Desperate. Tired of Life. Emotional Wounds that are not allowed to heal.

Our kids have diseases / physical conditions which could be an expression of our thoughts and feelings.

In the deeper-dive over Zoom, I would also look for these signs and use this as a way to take her deeper for her to see the darkness within she wasn't willing to see or was blind to so that she can do the work to dissolve the darkness.

3. In the next deep-dive over Zoom, I will check her in with asking her to assess her shoulder pain from 0 to 10.
And, get her to experience her Power to Create™ by being at the source of her own perfect health and joyous well-being.

Her acknowledgement of herself is far more important than her gratitude for me. Her experience of her own Power to Create™ is far more important for her progress on her good to great journey than her awe and admiration for me. I want her to experience her own power to create than be aware of me.

RYD Coaching Principles at Play:

1. Gear 1: Agility of Mind: Spiritual Value - Love for Self: Consciousness - I am extraordinary and I love myself.
i. I am responsible for all that happens in my Space - Our physical symptoms are an expression of our energy, emotional, mental and spiritual state.

2. Gear 2: Being of Service: Spiritual Value: Gratitude: Consciousness - You are extraordinary and I love you.
Distinctions:
i. You are extraordinary and I love you - Relating to our coachees as extraordinary and acknowledging them for their positive qualities which they themselves may not be seeing.

3: Gear 3: Communicating Powerfully in the World of Others: Spiritual Value - Reverence: Consciousness - I trust the process of Life. I trust the Universe. I trust the process of life. I trust the Universe. The Universe is gifting me my highest good, moment to moment. I am a channel of massive positive impact. I am making a difference.
Distinctions:
i. Committed Listening
ii. Stepping inside the world of others
iii. Leading with Questions - Giving the Power back to the Coachee.
iv. Being an Empty Space - The Coachee is the Hero of their Life, not us.
v. Childlike trust and Faith
vi. Relationship of Equals
vii. Authentic Connection

4. Gear 4: Delivering on our Word: Spiritual Value - Integrity: Consciousness - I am whole, complete and perfect as I am right now. You are whole, complete and perfect as they are right now. Life is whole, complete and perfect as it is right now. I am my word. I believe in myself. I believe in you.
Distinctions:
i. Integrity - Hat tipping the Source
ii. Shining the Light - on the coachee's positive qualities with belief in their undeniable greatness and acknowledging them for that to concretise and maximise their positive qualities to strengthen their Inner Light.
iii. Being a Nurturing Space - for them to experience their own greatness and access their own Power to Create™

5. Gear 5: Excellence: Spiritual Value - Love for self, Love for everyone and Love for everything: Consciousness - I love, accept and respect myself as I am right now. I love, accept and respect all beings as they are right now. I love, accept and respect Life itself as it is right now. I am Infinite Love. I am Infinite Joy. I am Infinite Equanimity. I am Infinite Loving Kindness. I am Infinite Abundance.
Distinctions:
i. See the Pain, Not Be the Pain
ii. Mind without Preference
iii. DLCM - Do Less to Create More Value. Coach using RYD framework (Leadership Depth Distinctions, Craft Mastery Contribution Indicators and Business Excellence franeworks) and link postwork to RYD Habits, RYD Transformative Practises and RYD Games.
iv. Going Deeper
v. Completing the Loop - even if, over number of deep-dives

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