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Why play the RYD Good to Great game with Integrity and Commitment?

12/4/2025

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Sharing from Ankita, Catalyst Tribe, Centre for Entrepreneurial Excellence™

Dear RYD Circle Of Love,

I want to share a recent breakthrough I had, where I discovered accessing my Power to Create to generate my reality.

On Sunday, I told Jyoti that I will be unable to attend the Expand Event post 8 am, as I had a school meeting which just got announced and was mandatory to attend. 

Jyoti told me either I attend fully or else, see the recording. I felt extremely sad and little frustrated as I felt it was unfair to miss 2.5 hours for just 23 mins. When I reached out to her, she asked me to join in a call where I had a big moment of realisation that I was creating my reality sub-consciously. 

At first, it sounded absurd till she made me realise that the last 5 Expand Events I had struggled to attend because it had always clashed with some child-related event. I identified a pattern that was - If I progress in my professional journey, I will do disservice to my kids and family - and somewhere that was holding me back from moving ahead at a very deep sub-conscious level. I thought I Have it All, but I did not.

Post this, she asked me to create my new reality by doing work on small mind and big mind, and we set a new intention which was to be available for the school meeting and attend the Expand Event fully. It was very hard but I finally gave my full power of belief to it. She said we would connect next morning.

15 minutes before my call with Jyoti and Vimla, I got an email from school that the meeting had moved to 8:15 am. I went from getting spooked out to gratitude for this new super power I had gained. But wait, I had still 8 minutes to figure for which I thought I’ll convince Jyoti. On the call, she told me that I need to give my intention more power of belief - to fully attend both my daughter's school meeting and attend the Expand Event. I left the call feeling that it was too much to ask the Universe for, but I said - No harm. Let's experiment. 

Yesterday morning before the Expand Event, I decided I'll miss 8 minutes of the school meeting while still trying to stay strong in my power of belief. I reached the school at 8:15 am while still being on the Expand Event zoom call. I noticed through the glass doors that the meeting hadn’t commenced. I stayed outside and at 8:22 am, the teachers asked the parents to get seated. At 8:23 am after fully attending the Expand Event, I logged out of the call and sat just in time for the first slide of my daughters exhibition meeting.

What I learnt ?

We all have SUPERPOWERS. What I did not have was the courage to BELIEVE.
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I am grateful to Jyoti and Vimla for this breakthrough which has me create a massive shift in every minute I’ve lived in the last 3 days.

Thank you . Thank you. Thank you.

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Dear Peaceful Warriors,


Each one of you has infinite Power to Create to generate your reality in alignment with your reality-defying intentions and impossible, unimaginable, crazy-big dreams.

RYD is a gym, a training ground, designed for you to experientially learn to access your infinite Power to Create to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Your weekly deep-dives, monthly EXPAND events, preworks, postworks, book of the month, games to play, messages in the various RYD groups, article of the day, growth habits, transformative practises are all carefully designed workouts.

Playing the RYD Good to Great game with commitment and integrity will counter-intuitively create more time for you.

Trust the RYD process to have more fun and ease along the way.

This does not mean you have to blindly follow. We are creating powerful leaders, not followers.

What it means is you play the RYD Good to Great game like a scientist. Consider everything in the RYD Gym as a hypothesis. Have a socratic discussion with your coach to intellectually understand the hypothesis. Then, co-create an experiment to test the hypothesis. Run the experiment, with your heart believing the hypothesis for the period of the experiment through Willing Suspension of Disbelief; and based on the results of your experiment, understand your Truth. That is when you will experience the Inner Knowing of that Truth, which is when that Truth is yours to live from. Not before.

Let only your Truth, your Inner Wisdom guide you forward. Though you have to play the game full-out to get there.

That is how Ankita played to get to a visceral experience of her Power to Create. Having experienced it, she is in the next orbit of her Good to Great journey.

Irrespective of external circumstances, get coaching from your coach to attend all your deep-dives, monthly EXPAND events, do all your preworks, postworks, read your book of the month, play the games, read the messages in the various RYD groups, article of the day, do your growth habits, transformative practises offered to you because what prevents you from attending a deep-dive or doing any of the above is what is also your barrier on your good to great journey. Understanding that barrier is key to dissolving it.

Ankita discovered that her biggest barrier on her Good to Great journey was her belief - *If I progress in my professional journey. I will do disservice to my kids and family*

This belief is not even her own but it was living her life for her. The belief is sourced in her being a woman. She inherited that belief, as we all do.

We are only conscious of 5% of our limiting beliefs. It's when we play the RYD game with integrity and commitment that these limiting beliefs will emerge from under the conscious mind from the sub-conscious and the unconscious minds.

Thank you, Ankita, for letting me push you off the cliff for you to discover your wings.

Your biggest inheritance to Adya and Diya is you dissolving your limiting belief - *If I progress in my professional journey, I will do disservice to my kids and family* - and transforming what it means to be a woman.

Let us all keep uncovering, discovering and dissolving our inner barriers to joyously lead ourselves and our businesses from good to great, realize our dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Loving you,
j.
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Secret to fulfilling your Intentions with Ease and Grace

5/12/2024

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I am going to tell you all a secret today, a secret that I haven't shared for 14 years with anyone. I could not because I didn't know any better.

It's secret that will have you fulfil all your intentions and realize all your dreams with ease, grace and velocity.

Are you ready for this one?

​Here's the Spiral of Growth for fulfilling your intentions and realizing your dreams with ease, grace and velocity:

1. Shift your Energy to Gear 5 Consciousness


How to Shift your Energy to Gear 5?


2. Create an Intention

More on How to create and fulfil your Intention?

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3. Three Tests of Belief
i. Do you believe you can fulfil your intention? On a scale of 0 to 10, where are you at with respect to your belief. After seeing the Truth of where you are at, make the choice to step up to 10 on 10 with your heart, mind and soul..

ii. Do you believe people are supporting you to fulfil your intention? On a scale of 0 to 10, where are you at with respect to your belief. After seeing the Truth of where you are at, make the choice to step up to 10 on 10 with your heart, mind and soul..

iii. Do you believe the Universe is supporting you to fulfil your intention? After seeing the Truth of where you are at, make the choice to step up to 10 on 10 with your heart, mind and soul..


4. Open yourself to receive support from the Universe
i. Identify each one who will be touched or impacted by your Intention.
ii. Reflect deeply on what would most contribute to each one of them in context of your Intention.
iii. Go back to Step 1 to check if you are still operating from Gear 5 Consciousness.
iv. Move forward to Step 2 to update your Intention to include - what would most contribute to each one touched by your intention - as part of your intention.
v. Go to Step 3. above and make a choice to step up to believe 10 on 10 across the 3 Tests of belief.

It's in giving that we receive. When we support others to fulfil their intentions and realize their dreams from Being of Service consciousness instead of from a place to get something back, we get supported by the Universe to fulfil our intentions and realize their dreams.

That's what opening ourselves to receive support from the Universe means. (Gear 5 RYD Distinction)

All intentions are Partner Intentions. All dreams are Partner Dreams. (Gear 3 RYD Distinction)

Either intentions of all in an ecosystem would be fulfilled or no one would be able to fulfil their intention. Either dreams of all in an ecosystem would be fulfilled or no one would be able to fulfil their dreams. 

An intention is not an intention if it harms anyone or anything. A dream is not a dream if it harms anyone or anything. (Gear 3 RYD Distinction)

An intention or a dream can only be created in at least Gear 3. A powerful intention or a powerful dream which gets fulfilled on its own with ease and grace, can only be created in Gear 5.


5. Create your Structure of Success to fulfil on your updated Intention

i. Create a list of input actions to fulfil on the Intention and schedule the actions in your calendar.
ii. Use creative thinking for identifying 1FOR5 opportunities - 1 action that fulfils 5 intentions across different areas of our wheel of life.
iii. Use 20 / 80 Thinking to identify those 20% inputs actions that would give you 80% outcomes.
iv. Put timelines on the input actions
v. Schedule the input actions on your calendar


6. Take action as per your Structure of Success with Integrity.

Take actions by the time you said you would, in a way you meant to. (Gear 4 RYD Distinction)

7. Make a choice to be happy, fulfilled and grateful, irrespective of the outcome, by practising being Gear 5 consciousness through RYD Growth Habits and RYD Transformative Practices; in the face of whatever Reality gets created.

It's better to sweat in the training ground of RYD than struggle in the Olympics of Life. (Gear 1 RYD Distinction)

Step up to the next Spiral of Growth by going to Step 1) above and progressing to the next step, one step at a time to reach Step 5) to update the Structure of Success with learnings and insights from the first Spiral of Growth. Continue all the way to Step 7), which is when you are ready for the next Spiral of Growth.

It's not about - Fake it till you Make It.
It's about - Believe it till you Create it. (RYD Gear 3 Distinction)

All intentions are meant to be fulfilled. All dreams are meant to be realized. 

The above would be true for you only if you Believe it till you Create it, moving upwards endlessly through spirals of growth.

Keep believing to joyously lead yourself and your businesses from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; experiencing beauty, balance and harmony within and all around; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Loving you,
j.
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Raising our Consciousness all the way to Gear 5

2/9/2024

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First, the mind understands. This is the first spiral of growth from Gear 1 to Gear 5.

Then, the heart believes. This is the second spiral of growth from Gear 1 to Gear 5.

Finally, the soul knows. We dissolve all fears within to reach a place where we get in touch with the visceral experience of the Inner Knowing. This is the third spiral of growth from Gear 1 to Gear 5.

Gear 1 Consciousness

I forgive myself for hurting myself directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, intentionally or unintentionally, in this lifetime and in all my lifetimes before.
I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.
I am extraordinary and I love myself.


Gear 2 Consciousness

I forgive all beings for hurting me directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, intentionally or unintentionally, in this lifetime and in all my lifetimes before.
I seek forgiveness from all beings for hurting them directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, intentionally or unintentionally, in this lifetime and in all my lifetimes before.
I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.
You are extraordinary and I love you.


Gear 3 Consciousness

I forgive Life itself for hurting me directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, intentionally or unintentionally, in this lifetime and in all my lifetimes before.
Life is extraordinary and I love Life.
I trust the process of life. 
I trust the Universe.
The Universe is gifting me my highest good, moment to moment.
I am a channel of massive positive impact.
I am making a difference.


Gear 4 Consciousness

I am enough. 
People are enough.
Life is enough.
I am whole, complete and perfect as I am right now.
People are whole, complete and perfect as they are right now.
Life is whole, complete and perfect as it is right now.
I am my word.
I believe in myself.
I believe in you.


Gear 5 Consciousness

I love, accept and revere myself as I am right now.
I love, accept and revere all beings as they are right now.
I love, accept and revere Life itself as it is right now.
I am
the Creator of my Life,
Captain of my Soul,
Master of my Mind, 
Nurturer of my Heart,
Guardian of my Energy,
Nourisher of my Body;
with the Universe as my partner and co-creator.

I am Infinite Love.
I am Infinite Joy.
I am Infinite Equanimity.
I am Infinite Loving Kindness.
I am Infinite Abundance.

Let's joyously raise our consciousness to lead ourselves and our businesses from good to great making a massive difference living our Purpose through our work, realize our dreams and have it all with ease and grace; experiencing beauty, balance and harmony within and all around; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way 💜

Loving you,
j.
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Dissolving Fears

11/8/2024

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from The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself
by Michael A Singer 

Imagine that you have a thorn in your arm that directly touches a nerve. When the thorn is touched, it's very painful. Because it hurts so much, the thorn is a serious problem. It's difficult to sleep because you roll over on it. It’s hard to get close to people because they might touch it. It makes your daily life very difficult. This thorn is a constant source of disturbance, and to solve the problem you only have two choices.

The first choice is to look at your situation and decide that since it's so disturbing when things touch the thorn, you need to make sure nothing touches it.

The second choice is to decide that since it's so disturbing when things touch the thorn, you need to take it out.

The effects of the choice you make will determine the course of the rest of your life.

Hat Tip: Shreya Dubey
Thank you for your contribution our community through your daily shares, Shreya 💜

We usually make the first choice to make sure nothing touches the thorn because we have an aversion to pain.

When we pull out the thorn, it will hurt and it will bleed. The thorn are the painful memories from our past, painful memories in our DNA inherited from our ancestors and if you believe in past life, painful memories from our past lives.

These painful memories are stored in the conscious mind (5% of our mind), sub-conscious mind (15% of our mind) and in the unconscious mind (80% of our mind) because we pushed our painful memories under the carpet as we did not know how to process the pain at the time of the incident.

The impact of these painful memories is that we have fear stored in our mind which blocks us from realizing our highest potential and our circumstances in the world outside is a reflection of these fears hidden within us.

What we do is keep battling with our circumstances which are mere reflections of our fears within. That is why we keep struggling.

Our Leadership Depth journey is the journey to go within to dissolve fears in our conscious mind, in our sub-conscious mind and in our unconscious mind for us move from fear towards love for our own self as the first step in Gear 1 to love for all beings and for all things in Gear 5.

Gear 1 Habits are designed to dissolve fears in the Conscious Mind. The keystone transformative practise in this Gear is Reflection.

Gear 2 Habits are designed to dissolve fears in the Sub-Conscious Mind. The keystone transformative practise in this Gear is Psychodrama.

That is why we have integrated Psychodrama as part of the RYD Journey. Since December 2023, Brave Hearts, Ashokas and Socratians have been going through the process of the Journey Within through Psychodrama.

From 15-Sep-24, we will open up the Psychodrama process for the whole community.

On 15-Sep-24, Kay Lord, Psychodrama Trainer, Educator and Practitioner, with 40 years of deep experience, based out of Houston, US, will be in India to run a one-day in-person deep-dive immersion for RYD Circle of Love in Mumbai.

She is my trainer, guide and mentor after my earlier mentor transitioned over at 88. I have been experiencing and learning this modality from him since 2020. I am deeply grateful to Herb and Kay for their massive contribution to my life. 

Psychodrama has made a huge difference to my life in supporting me to get in touch with my Hole-in-the-Soul roles (Helpless Child, Critical Parent, Bored Avoider, Super Hero Martyr), to begin the work on dissolving them and in strengthening my Peaceful Warrior roles.

Hole-in-the-Soul in our Spiritual Body creates the small mind in our Mental Body, which creates limiting roles in our Emotional Body, which creates low energy in our Energy Body, which creates limiting behaviours in our Physical Body.

In RYD Leadership Depth journey, we work on all the 5 bodies to transform (TRANScend our default FORM) ourselves to be a Whole Soul, Big Mind, develop and strengthen Peaceful Warrior Roles, unleash limitless Joyous Energy within, and become healthy and fit; responding to the world with Heathy Positive Uplifting Behaviours that contribute to us and those around us to realize our highest potential and make a massive positive impact through our work as an outcome of that.

The Leadership Depth journey is isolation is difficult. It is in integration of the 3 journeys - Leadership Depth, Business Excellence and Craft Mastery - that we progress with greater ease, grace and velocity to Have It All.

That is why in RYD, we travel the 3 journeys simultaneously to joyously lead ourselves and our business from good to great, realize our dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way.

Holding space for each one of you to joyously fly high in the vast sky of your limitless possibilities 💜

Loving you,
j.
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