What do I do if my Promise is no longer Valid?

​Integrity is about honouring our word which means - doing what I said I would do, by the time I said I would, in the way I meant to and if I miss to, I will restore my word.

Integrity is a Gear 4 spiritual value. We can only make a promise in Gear 4 and restore our word in Gear 4.

If we feel mad / bad / sad on breaking our word or when restoring it, we are in Gear 0. Therefore, it is important to consciously step up to Gear 4 to make a promise and consciously step up to Gear 4 to restore a promise and consciously step up to Gear 4 to release ourselves of a promise.

Gear 0 Default Consciousness sourced in Fear - I am feeling mad / bad / sad - low emotional state
Gear 1 Consciousness - I am extraordinary. I love myself.
Gear 2 Consciousness - You are extraordinary. I love you.
Gear 3 Consciousness - I trust the Universe. I trust the process of Life. I am a channel of impact. I am making a difference.
Gear 4 Consciousness - I am whole, complete and perfect. You are whole, complete and perfect. Life is whole, complete and perfect. I believe in myself. I believe in you.

Our resident Gear may be 1 but we can always consciously step up to Gear 4 in the moment to make a promise, restore a promise and release ourselves from a promise.

If it is difficult to step up to Gear 4 in the moment, then do your RYD Growth Habits to step up and then restore your word to give you power. Otherwise, restoring your word would take away your power.

When we break our word, no apologies are required. All that is required is restoring our word from Gear 4.

The question then could be, why is restoring our word a Gear 1 Habit?

It is a Gear 1 Habit to give us a gym to practise Agility of Mind to practise consciously stepping up to Gear 4 to make a promise, restore our promise or release ourselves from our promise.

What happens if we make a promise from Gear 0? - Then, our promise may harm us.

What happens if we make a promise from Gear 1? - Then, our promise may harm others and in turn, harm our own self, as it's in giving that we receive.

What happens if make a promise from Gear 2? - Then, the burden of honouring our promise is on us. We have not made the Universe our partner in honouring our word. It would be exhausting to honour our word. It's in a dance between me and the Universe that there is ease and grace. If I have to fulfil all my intentions only by myself, then that would be burdensome and back-breaking.

What happens if we make a promise from Gear 3? - We miss to get willing partnership from others to support us to fulfil our promise. A promise is nothing but an intention. We cannot fulfil any intention on our own. It is only in a joyous partnership with the Universe and others around us can our intention and our promises be fulfilled with ease and grace.

A question could be - How can I relate to people as extraordinary as I only have negative people around me? Well, our job is to focus on the tiny speck of goodness in them or move away from them till we have the strength to focus on the tiny speck of goodness in them and respond to that with positive energy. 

There are no straight, factory-fitted answers to every situation. Best would be to explore with your coach in your weekly deep-dive immersion to discover your Truth and the way forward on your Good to Great journey.

Keep playing to joyously lead yourself and your business from good to great, realize your dreams and have it all with ease and grace; while having lots of fun and adventure along the way 💜

Loving you,
j.