Asifa

Asifa is the effect. Effect of us (women) having to seek justice rather than have the power to create a just society, where people relate to each other with compassionate love and reverence. Effect of us choosing to play small by not investing in our Leadership Depth to have it all - deeply fulfilling successful careers living in the expression of our genius AND raising happy responsible kids joyously living out their genius. Effect of us not choosing to be powerful role models and influencers by being masters of our craft, thought leaders of our industry by believing the lie that we can either raise happy children or build great careers. Effect of us not having the Leadership Depth to become CEOs and Board Members of our organizations; and creating a new Leadership Model that allows us to also be fully available to our children to nurture them to be extraordinary leaders.

Asifa lived and died to wake up our consciousness of how we, her sisterhood, have not created the world for her to experience the joy of learning, growing and evolving by going to a world class school and university in her village; and experiencing the courage, confidence and self-belief to raise a happy family along with building a business that leads the world forward. That is the future we have denied her and deny it to many others by not living in the expression our greatness and instead, choosing to live small lives.

Transformation is never brought about by pointing fingers at the others but by looking in the mirror. We will cause the transformation we are seeking by stopping to look at what the other gender is doing, not doing, should do, should not do. Whether they evolve, not evolve, the speed at which they evolve is their business; not ours. Our business is to work on our own selves and become the Leaders to create the world that we want. Not in anger, upset, sadness because that shuts down the brain; shuts off our access to productivity, performance, creativity and innovation; but by transmuting those limiting emotions to love, gratitude, reverence, integrity and mastery; and creating a Brave New World. That's what our daughters and our sons are depending on us for because when Asifa happens, every being suffers.

You want to avenge Asifa? Fall into forgiveness and connect to the Love that connects all beings and grow your Leadership Depth to have it all - a deeply fulfilling successful career, loving harmonious relationships, happy responsible kids and lots of nourishing nurturing me-time so that you have the influence and power to create a world where Asifa is in the history books as the source of revolution that swept the world to transform what it means to be a woman and what it means to be a human being; creating a world where each one realizes their greatest dreams in deepest communion with their highest self; experiencing love, abundance, prosperity, success, peace, fulfilment, freedom and joy.

Love, 
​Jyoti.