Who are You?

Growth lies in the direction of what you fear, what you resist and what is difficult. Using this guiding principle, making choices becomes a very simple, an almost effortless process :-) 

Should I play on the easier course or the course where I lost 5 balls last time, should I travel to the US for a training or sign up for another video conference coaching program, should I take the kids for tournaments around the country or let them continue to play on their home course, should I seek forgiveness from my home support staff because I shouted at her or should I just pretend nothing happened, should I challenge the yes or simply accept the cheque from a new client, should I please my clients or tell them what they don't want to hear, tell them what others in their life don't have the courage to tell them, take them to places where they are scared to go though that's where their highest growth lies. 

Every time a choice shows up, my mind groans because it hates what it fears, what it resists and what it finds difficult; and it knows what choice I will make because I am not my mind. I have a mind. I am not my thoughts and emotions. I have thoughts and emotions. 

Then who am I? I am my commitment - commitment to be love, gratitude, reverence, integrity and mastery. It is the expression of my highest self. And, commitment doesn't shift because of who I am interfacing with, what my circumstances are, the chaos that is outside or inside. Sure, I fall off the path many moments along the way. What moves me forward is making the choice to keep coming back.

Take a moment for inquiry and reflection - Who are YOU?

What moves me forward is also the understanding that at the Starter level, we will be on the path only 20% of the time. 80% of the time, we will fall off, come back to the path after restoring our word to ourselves. After being a Starter, we gather enough muscle to move on to the Champion level where we are on the path 80% of the time and 20% of the time, we will fall off and make the choice to come back. Its only at the Mastery level, are we on the path 100% of the time. 

The challenge is we give up at the Starter level, making ourselves wrong for having fallen off the path not realising mastery is certain as long as we keep getting up to walk after every fall.

Wishing you strength, courage and conviction to walk on your path to who YOU are to experience authentic joy, fulfilment, freedom, abundance and success.

​Love, Jyoti.
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