What Do We Need to Realize Our Greatest Dreams in Deepest Communion with Our Highest Self?

Here’s what we need. Of course, as I always say, mine is a view from a point. Walk to this point and choose to stay there, only if it serves you to take powerful, effective actions to create unimaginable, impossible, magical outcomes that are authentically yours.
 
A. You need someone

1. Who relates to you as extra-ordinary, and keeps reminding you of it even when you keep forgetting it.
2. Who holds the space for your Greatness, even though you may be living a small life right now.
3. Who gives you unconditional love and acceptance, however you are and however you are not.
4. Who teaches you to nourish all the four bodies of your Being – Intellectual / Mental, Emotional, Physical and Spiritual.
5. Who supports you to find the purpose of life that connects with your heart, mind, spirit and body.
6. Who teaches you not to put her / him on a pedestal and teaches you to have a relationship of equals with her / him.
7. Who does not want to be a Hero of the story of your life; instead coaches you to be the Hero of your own story.
8. Who holds you to account to your Greatest Dreams.
9. Loves you so much that (s)he doesn’t care you not loving them by having the courage to show you the mirror to make you see what you don’t want to see and take you to places you don’t want to go.
10. Who knows they can never walk for you, that only you can walk the path to your Highest Self.
11. Who knows that their knowledge cannot support you to live a great life, that what would truly support you is their guidance for you to access the knowledge inside yourself through direct experience. That is when knowledge transforms into wisdom and is of any use.
12. Whose teaching gives you access to increase your performance, productivity, creativity and innovation.
13. Whose mentoring supports you to have it all – deeply fulfilling successful career, joyful relationships, happy responsible kids and lots of nourishing me-time, while making a huge difference to the world.
14. Who teaches you to not believe her / him blindly; instead encourages you to explore, experiment and arrive at your own conclusions which is when you get access to powerful, effective action to live in the experience of your greatness.
15. Who stop you from being a copy of them, but give you the space to be the ‘authentic you’.
16. Who awakens you to your highest purpose to serve humanity through your work, irrespective of what job you do or the role you play or the level you are at.
17. Who coaches you to relate to yourself as extraordinary; coaches you to give unconditional love and acceptance to your own self.
18. Who coaches you to have an agile mind to experience a 360-degree view of reality; having you realize that at 180-degree, there are contradictory views of reality that are equally valid.
19. In whose space, you discover yourself.
20. Who coaches you to relate to everyone as extraordinary; give your unconditional love & acceptance to each one; relate to everyone and everything with love, gratitude and reverence.
21. Who coaches you to grasp the secret of creation – that all that you want will only come to you by giving it to others.
22. Who coaches you to find the Hero inside yourself by being of service to all in your space.
23. Who coaches you to communicate powerfully in the world of others.
24. Who inspires you instead of motivating you. Inspiration is an internal force (sustainable over a long period of time) moving you into action. While motivation is an external force which doesn’t last long.
25. Who coaches you to deliver on your word; to do what you said you would, at the time you said you would and the way you meant you would.
26. Who coaches you to walk on the path to your Greatness and become the Master of your Craft; making a huge difference to the world, leaving foot-prints in the sand of time.

 
Assess every guru, coach, mentor or a teacher on the above parameters; before giving them the right to be your guru, coach, mentor or a teacher.
 
A good question here would be – Why does one need someone outside of our self? Why does one need a guru, coach, mentor or a teacher? There are many reasons but the most important is that we cannot see our own blind spots. Growth is available to us only in continuous uncovering of our blind spots as only that allows us to take powerful effective action effortlessly, which is not available to us before the uncovering.
 
B. You need to be – You need to be committed to realize your greatest dreams in deepest communion with your highest self.
 
C. You need to do – You need to take action every single day, action that accelerates you on the path of fulfilling your intentions and realizing your dreams.
 
D. You need to have – an intense burning desire to live your Greatest Life.
 
E. You need to surround yourself with people who are on the path to their Highest Self because you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
 
When you can cause all the above five to come together, you will find yourself living in the expression of your Light, your Genius.
 
Wishing you aliveness, deep fulfillment and joyous freedom of experiencing and living in the expression of your Greatness this lifetime.
 
Love,
Jyoti.

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