What Do We Need to Realize Our Greatest Dreams in Deepest Communion with Our Highest Self?

Here’s what we need. Of course, as I always say, mine is a view from a point. Walk to this point and choose to stay there, only if it serves you to take powerful, effective actions to create unimaginable, impossible, magical outcomes that are authentically yours.
 
A. You need someone

1. Who relates to you as extra-ordinary, and keeps reminding you of it even when you keep forgetting it.
2. Who holds the space for your Greatness, even though you may be living a small life right now.
3. Who believes in you and in your crazy, impossible, unimaginable dream to transform the world.
4. Who gives you unconditional love and acceptance, however you are and however you are not.
5. Who teaches you to nourish and nurture all the five bodies of your Being – Physical, Energy, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual.
6. Who supports you to find the purpose of your life that connects deeply with your heart, mind, body, energy and soul.
7. Who teaches you not to put her / him on a pedestal and teaches you to have a relationship of equals with her / him.
8. Who does not want to be a Hero of the story of your life; instead coaches you to be the Hero of your own story.
9. Who holds you to account to your Greatest Dreams.
10. Loves you so much that (s)he doesn’t care you not loving them by having the courage to show you the mirror to make you see what you don’t want to see and take you to places you don’t want to go to.
11. Who knows they can never walk for you, that only you can walk the path to your Highest Self.
12. Who knows that their knowledge cannot support you to live a great life, that what would truly support you is their guidance for you to access the knowledge inside yourself through direct experience. That is when knowledge transforms into wisdom and is of any use.
13. Whose teaching gives you access to increase your performance, productivity, creativity and innovation.
14. Whose mentoring supports you to have it all – deeply fulfilling, successful, profitable business; loving, harmonious, positive, uplifting relationships at work and at home; happy, healthy, responsible, confident kids with their genius joyfully expressed;  nurturing and nourishing yourself to the highest level of health, fitness and joyous well-being; and making a massive difference in the world through the work you do.
15. Who teaches you to not believe her / him blindly; instead encourages you to explore, experiment and arrive at your own conclusions which is when you get access to powerful, effective action to live in the experience of your greatness.
16. Who stops you from being a copy of them, but give you the space to be the ‘authentic you’.
17. Who awakens you to your highest purpose to serve humanity through your work, irrespective of what job you do or the role you play or the level you are at.
18. Who coaches you to relate to yourself as extraordinary; coaches you to give unconditional love and acceptance to your own self.
19. Who coaches you to have an agile mind to experience a 360-degree view of reality; having you realize that at 180-degree, there are contradictory views of reality that are equally valid.
20. In whose space, you discover yourself.
21. Who coaches you to look within with Raw Honesty to shine the light of awareness on your blind spots for you to transform every blind spot into an opportunity for growth.
22. Who has the courage to lead you to dark places within that you don't want to go to, to dark places within that scare you, to dark places within that you didn't even know existed for you to dissolve all your inner barriers for you to realize your highest potential, make a massive positive impact in the world and have it all.
23. Who coaches you to transform each one of your breakdowns into breakthroughs for you to fly high in the vast sky of your limitless possibilities. 
24. Who coaches you to relate to everyone as extraordinary; give your unconditional love and acceptance to each one in your space; relate to everyone and everything with love, gratitude and reverence.
25. Who coaches you to grasp the secret of creation – that all that you want will only come to you by giving it to others.
26. Who coaches you to find the Hero inside yourself by being of service to all in your space.
27. Who coaches you to communicate powerfully in the world of others with vulnerable authenticity that creates willing partnership with people in your life supporting you to fulfil on your intentions and realize your dreams with ease and grace.
28. Who coaches you to be authentic about your inauthenticities and through that, find a way to your highest self.
29. Who coaches you to discover your own Truth and stand up for it with courage, confidence and commitment.
30. Who coaches you to experience the joy of authentic human connection with all beings in your Space.
31. Who inspires you instead of motivating you. Inspiration is an internal force (sustainable over a long period of time) moving you into action. While motivation is an external force which doesn’t last long.
32. Who coaches you to deliver on your word - to do what you said you would, by the time you said you would, in the way you meant to do it.
33. Who coaches you to walk on the path to your Greatness and become the Master of your Craft, a Thought Leader in your Industry; making a massive difference in the world, leaving foot-prints in the sand of time.
34. Who continues to learn, grow and evolve as a channel for your ongoing transformation.
35. Whose coaching leads you to experience yourself as whole, complete and perfect as you are right now; experience people in your space as whole, complete and perfect as they are right now; experience all of life as whole, complete and perfect as it is right now. In that experience of wholeness, completeness and perfection; you get access to transform yourself, people around you and life itself.
36. Whose coaching ultimately leads you to viscerally experience unconditional love and acceptance for who you are right now, unconditional love and acceptance for all beings in your space as they are right now, and unconditional love and acceptance for all of life as it is right now. As this experience dissolves all resistance in your mind and dissolves all fears in your mind (conscious, sub-conscious, unconscious), you become who you truly are - infinite love, infinite joy, infinite equanimity, infinite loving kindness and infinite abundance. And, in that becoming, you get full access to your Power to Create to generate Reality in alignment with your intentions and dreams.

 
Assess every guru, coach, mentor, guide or a teacher on the above parameters; before giving them the right to be your guru, coach, mentor, guide or a teacher.
 
A good question here would be – Why does one need someone outside of our self? Why does one need a guru, coach, mentor, guide or a teacher? There are many reasons but the most important is that we cannot see our own blind spots. Growth is available to us only in continuous uncovering of our blind spots as only that allows us to take powerful effective actions effortlessly, which is not available to us before the uncovering.

Check in with yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 if you have an Inner Knowing if the coach is meant to be your coach. 

Even if the coach is 9.9999 on 10, don’t take them on because a coach is a channel of your transformation and growth. You will pull through that channel, whatever you need on your Hero’s Journey from good to great to realize your dreams only if you have a 10 on 10 Inner Knowing about them being your coach.

Trust your Inner Wisdom, your Inner Knowing to guide you to your coach.

With a less than 10 on 10 belief in your coach, you will not be able to fully receive from the channel that the coach is and it would become an ineffective relationship. If you are not a Hell Yes about a coach, just be a Hell No and walk away.

A coach is an important part of our Hero’s journey, our Good to Great journey to realize our greatest dreams in deepest communion with our highest self and have it all because the coach is our truth-teller, way-shower, space holder for our greatness,  blind-spot mirror, doubler of our thoughts and feelings, unshakeable believer, unconditional nurturer, wind beneath our wings for us to fly high in the vast sky of our limitless possibilities.
 
B. You need to be – You need to be committed to realize your greatest dreams in deepest communion with your highest self.
 
C. You need to do – You need to take action every single day, action that accelerates you on the path of fulfilling your intentions and realizing your dreams.
 
D. You need to have – an intense burning desire to live your Greatest Life. You need to have an impossible, unimaginable, crazy Dream that brings stars to your eyes, a song on your lips, dance to your feet, joy in your heart, peace to your mind, love in your soul and yet, it scares you a wee bit too otherwise the dream is not big enough. The size of your dream limits the size of your life, limits the growth available to you this lifetime, limits the potential you will realize this lifetime, limits the positive impact you will create and therefore, limits how happy and fulfilled you are. 
 
E. You need to surround yourself with people who are on the path to their Highest Self, who are on their own Hero's journey from Good to Great because you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
 
When you can cause all the above five to come together, you will find yourself living in the expression of your Light, your Genius.
 
Wishing you aliveness, deep fulfilment and joyous freedom of experiencing and living in the expression of your undeniable Greatness this lifetime.
 
Loving you,
j.
​Edited on: 2-Aug-24